Sex
Young people living with HIV can have relationships, sex, and have children without passing on HIV.
Sex can feel great and can be really fun. There are lots of different ways to have sex. Only do what you feel comfortable with doing and tell your partner straight away if you feel uncomfortable.
Safe sex
Sex also comes with risks such as sexually transmitted infections (STIs) and unplanned pregnancies.
Talk about safe sex openly with your partner. Together decide what types of sex you are comfortable with. Agree on ways to reduce the risk of HIV, other STIs, and unplanned pregnancies.
It is easier to talk to your partner if you are comfortable with your body and sexual health. If you feel talking to your partner about safe sex is too hard, talk to a counsellor or your medical team who can help you with that.
Some people have sex when they have been drinking alcohol or using drugs. Being drunk or high can affect the decisions you make about sex and safe sex.
If you want to have sex and think you might get drunk or high, plan ahead by bringing condoms and lube and keeping it close. That way you won’t forget them in the heat of the moment.
If you want to know more about condoms and how to use them click on this link: www.familyplanning.org.nz
Consent
Consent is very important when it comes to sex. Consent is when everyone involved freely say yes to sex and there is no pressure to have sex.
It is not okay to have sex with someone who is so drunk or high that they can’t walk, can’t talk or have passed out.